Look, you and I are kindred spirits. Like you do now, I used to open direct, telling every girl she's so cute that I had to meet her. And like you're starting to realize, I realized there's something wrong with what I'm saying, I need to change this. Here are 4 reasons why direct opening keeps you at a beginner level, and what to replace it with. Direct opening is easily the most popular way to open in the community. Because of the ease of using it, guys fall in love with it

I'm sure you can relate to this scenario: you see a girl, then decide to approach. You think of all the openers you can possibly use that would fit this context, but you're not sold on any of them, not because they're bad, but you just don't want to use the wrong one. You want the best one. After battling back and forth about what to say for too much time, the girl you s potted is long gone. You lost your opportunity. What happened??? You were overthinking...that's what happe

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This article will contain a bit more detail than others I've done, specifically because it's for guys who have already been approaching...

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The cold approach community suffers from the same disease that the rest of modern society does: not understanding how to learn. Modern...

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1) Let go of jealousy being jealous of friends, other people who have women you think are attractive only stifles your energy 2) Build...

Let's get into some technical talk today. I'll make a statement about something that you've heard of, but not in a way you've ever heard....

"Learn game, develop proficiency, and then forget game." Being excellent at anything, however, requires constant tweaking and...

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The title says it all. Attraction is a subconscious, or unconscious process. Women do not choose who they are attracted to, but they do...