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Why Overthinking Hurts Your Approaches
I'm sure you can relate to this scenario: you see a girl, then decide to approach. You think of all the openers you can possibly use that would fit this context, but you're not sold on any of them, not because they're bad, but you just don't want to use the wrong one. You want the best one. After battling back and forth about what to say for too much time, the girl you s potted is long gone. You lost your opportunity. What happened??? You were overthinking...that's what happe

Shaka Piontkowskie
Nov 152 min read


Women Are NOT Men
As men, the majority of us choose women immediately based upon looks, eschewing any other considerations. As soon as we see the physique...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Aug 201 min read


Your Cold Approach Journey In A Nutshell
You are confronted with a task to do yet are stunted from trying because of fear. Approaching. Staying and conversing. Flirting. Physical...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jul 233 min read


Her Being Attracted To You Is Only The Tip Of The Iceberg
Attraction is not a choice. If you've been in the cold approach community for any length of time, I'm absolutely certain that you've come...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jul 185 min read


Counter-Intuitive Lessons From The Field, Pt. 2- "Hot Girls" Are Average Girls
Most physically attractive girls aren't models. Surprise, surprise. They go to school, and get a job, or start businesses, like everyone...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jul 172 min read


Attractive and Lonely (Counter-Intuitive Lessons From The Field, Pt. 1)
The more attractive she is, the lonelier she often is. Contrary to popular belief, the most attractive girls do NOT have the most options...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jul 162 min read


How To Stop Being The Pushy Intermediate Guy
This article will contain a bit more detail than others I've done, specifically because it's for guys who have already been approaching...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jul 145 min read


How To Do Your First Approach, Pt. 1,2&3
There are 2 parts to every approach: having something to say to start the conversation and getting yourself in front of the girl/girls....
Shaka Piontkowskie
Jul 145 min read


How To Learn, And How It Gets You Girls
The cold approach community suffers from the same disease that the rest of modern society does: not understanding how to learn. Modern...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jul 135 min read


The Only Kiss Routine You'll Ever Need
Today, you'll learn how to make girls chase and work for a kiss from you. But first, let's discuss the background of flipping the script,...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jul 115 min read


10 Rules To Becoming Good With Women
1) Let go of jealousy being jealous of friends, other people who have women you think are attractive only stifles your energy 2) Build...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jul 101 min read


Cocky-Funny Gives You These 3 Advantages
Let's get into some technical talk today. I'll make a statement about something that you've heard of, but not in a way you've ever heard....

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jun 305 min read


The Alternative To Learning, Then Forgetting Game
"Learn game, develop proficiency, and then forget game." Being excellent at anything, however, requires constant tweaking and...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jun 152 min read


Opening Direct is In-Authentic
Direct opening is often referred to as being the "most authentic way" to start an interaction, being that many guys find it like laying...

Shaka Piontkowskie
May 143 min read


2 Years To See Results, How Do You Feel?
One of the most controversial things in cold approach is the acknowledgement of a learning curve before being rewarded with dates and...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Apr 103 min read


Why The Cold Approach Community Never Evolves, And How It Can If It Chooses To
"There is no present or future - only the past, happening over and over again - now." - Eugene O'Neill This morning, I was thinking...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Mar 154 min read


How To Banish Bad Luck While Approaching
As humans, our minds are programmed (unless re-programmed by us ourselves) to immersively imagine the absolute worst-case scenario when...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Feb 283 min read


When Starting At The End Is Backwards
There is a lot of talk about starting at the end of a journey in order to properly plan and execute. This relates to embodying the...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Feb 243 min read


Attraction is Not Enough
The title says it all. Attraction is a subconscious, or unconscious process. Women do not choose who they are attracted to, but they do...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Feb 181 min read


Push Yourself When Talking To Girls and Dating
In a field where guys have sex with anything that walks to increase "lay count" and take easy sets to avoid actual learning, the man that...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Feb 141 min read

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