Attraction is Not Enough

The title says it all. Attraction is a subconscious, or unconscious process. Women do not choose who they are attracted to, but they do choose whether to act on that attraction. This means that logical processes play a role in whether she sees you again. In dating, romance, and sex, women initially make decisions on men they like emotionally, then back that decision up with logic that bolsters or reinforces her emotion for him. Getting her emotionally riled up is the first part, syncing her emotional and logical brain to move forward with you is the second (and most important) part. My mentor in day game would add romantic handholding and pair it with dialogue in his sets in such a way that not only would women feel attraction for him, but they would act and speak in a special way that makes it make sense for them to continue exploring options with him. He was not a "stranger" or a "random guy" at a certain point; he became HER LOVER after this process. If a woman sees you as a stranger, no matter how sexy she thinks you are, it's an uphill battle to make anything happen. My mentor would not only spark attraction but give women a logical, tangible reason to pursue him: potential romance. Flaking, last minute resistance, and buyers' remorse are all problems of one nature: the woman feels attraction and acts on it to a certain degree, but at some point her logical mind kicks in and intervenes because IT IS NOT ON THE SAME PAGE with her emotional brain.