10 Rules To Becoming Good With Women

1) Let go of jealousy

• being jealous of friends, other people who have women you think are attractive only stifles your energy

2) Build your skills

• being good with women is a skill set, treat it like one

3) Quit hating women

• you were sold a bunch of myths about how women are supposed to act, and when they do any differently, you're confused and upset

• once you understand that what's in your head is faulty, you can set out to change it

4) Quit listening to people who can't actually help you

• aim to take advice from guys who are at least slightly ahead of you on your journey, not people who are not on the path at all

5) Understand what it is you're going after/ put yourself in her shoes

• study women like a social scientist

6) Attraction is behavioral

• the way you act and carry yourself is the biggest determinant of how she will respond to you

7) Turn around and teach someone

• you actually learn a lot by teaching others who aren't yet where you are

8) Find a mentor who is where you want to be, or at least better than you

• similar to #4

9) Leave well enough alone (money/looks)

• women choose mates based on behavior, because that's what's most likely to guarantee survival for her and her child if she decides to get pregnant by you

10) Embrace the journey

• there's no way to fast-forward the hard parts, just enjoy everything as best as you can