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How To Overcome Neediness When Meeting Women In Dating And Approaching
In the midst of neediness, you can still see the truth. Simply put, you DON'T. All of us guys experience the same feelings of potential...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Feb 122 min read


How We Can Use Misinterpretation (IOIs are A Waste, pt. 2)
In the last newsletter, we learned why looking for IOIs is not as helpful as always assuming attraction until she shows you hard,...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Feb 22 min read


Why IOIs are A Waste of Time, pt. 1
If you've been in the cold approach sphere for any length of time, you've heard about IOIs. Indicators of Interest (IOI) are said to be...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jan 164 min read


"Approach Excitement"
If I took a poll to ask how many guys have felt approach anxiety before taking action, nearly 100% of hands in a room would go up? But...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Dec 16, 20243 min read


How to Brainwash Yourself to Make Approaching Work for You
In order to get the results you really want out of cold approach, you must train and adapt your mind to aid you in the process. Part of...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Nov 16, 20246 min read


Cold Approach and Business Parallels
I was hanging out with a wing/friend of mine, discussing everything under the sun as we usually do. He mentioned that he had a wing who,...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Nov 4, 20243 min read


Cold Approach as a Path to Mastery
Everyone doing cold approach needs to read Mastery by George Leonard. The Internet and high-tech culture has created a scenario where...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Oct 30, 20249 min read


The Seller Becomes The Buyer
Imagine a merchant going around, desperately trying to sell his goods to anyone that will look at him. He has no standards for his...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Oct 14, 20243 min read


Why Does It Take So Long To Learn?
I always see guys post about "I've done 70, 200, 1,000 approaches and I'm not getting what I want, what can I change?" The truth of the...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Oct 9, 20241 min read


Best Flirt Course, Addendum
In this edition of Best Flirt Course, we look at 7 types of techniques that are integral to flirting and how they are used. Note that...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Oct 7, 20244 min read


Best Flirt Course Ever, Pt. 1
A couple of months back, I had posted The Flirting Course You've Never Had as a tandem response to the work that I've done on why going...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Sep 22, 20246 min read


Counter-Intuitive Field Lessons Pt. 1
Ever look at a small set and think "this is easy, it's worth doing" versus seeing a larger set (3 or more girls) and talk yourself out of...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Sep 5, 20242 min read


Approaching Is A Luxury
There are times where it feels like you have to approach thousands of girls to just get one. There are times where it feels as if you are...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Aug 25, 20243 min read


You Will Always Be Limited With Women
This is more of a wisdom post; after years in cold approach, certain things become clear to you. Everyone starts out on every journey...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Aug 17, 20242 min read


As A Man, You've Got It Easy
The cries of men around the world echo loudly in all of our ears, "the internet is killing dating", "women have too many options", "men...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Aug 13, 20242 min read
Pursuing without "Chasing" is called...Chasing
One of the most confidence-testing ideas in game is giving girls space to chase you. Most of the community sees it as a risk, that girls...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Aug 3, 20242 min read
3 Ways To Spice Up Her Questions
Welcome to the good stuff! Today's blog is about 3 specific ways to add man-to-woman tension and flirting to your interactions, off of a...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jul 29, 20243 min read
You Should Be Turning Down Girls...A Lot
It's a very simple concept, but one not talked about often enough. We always hear how guys in this community are aiming to be...

Shaka Piontkowskie
Jul 9, 20242 min read
Hot Girls Are Lonely
It might seem crazy to say, but the hotter she is, the less options she has. The average guy looking at women will surmise that the most...

Shaka Piontkowskie
May 27, 20242 min read
Sub-comms are great, but...
I was recently part of a discussion on whether sub-communications or actual verbal escalation is more important. I gave acknowledgement...

Shaka Piontkowskie
May 1, 20241 min read

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