Push Yourself When Talking To Girls and Dating

In a field where guys have sex with anything that walks to increase "lay count" and take easy sets to avoid actual learning, the man that challenges himself in sets that most run from will end up with more girls than he can handle in the long run.

"The surfer waits for the big wave because he values the challenge it presents. He values the obstacles the wave puts between him and his goal of riding the wave to the beach. Why? Because it is those very obstacles, the size and churning power of the wave, which draw from the surfer his greatest effort. It is only against the big waves that he is required to use all his skill, all his courage and concentration to overcome; only then can he realize the true limits of his capacities. At that point he often slips into a superconscious state and attains his peak. In other words, the more challenging the obstacle he faces, the greater the opportunity for the surfer to discover and extend his true potential. The potential may have always been within him, but until it is manifested in action, it remains a secret hidden from himself. The obstacles are a very necessary ingredient to this process of self-discovery." - excerpt from The Inner Game of Tennis by W. Timothy Gallway

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Take the mountainous path when talking to girls.