Pursuing without "Chasing" is called...Chasing

One of the most confidence-testing ideas in game is giving girls space to chase you. Most of the community sees it as a risk, that girls will immediately up and forget you if you do not struggle to stay top-of-mind for her. It is understandable why they believe this, but it is also exposing a fundamental intrinsic and technical flaw: you do not believe that you are worth remembering and/or you do not know how to set yourself apart from other guys by making her chase. The belief comes before the technique so it's important to start there. If you do not believe that you are more deserving, more exciting, more captivating than any other guys she can meet, you have a big mental problem.

If you have dedicated extensive time and energy to cold approach, and developing yourself as a man in general to buttress your cold approach efforts, you are ahead of A WHOLE LOT of guys. It would be rare enough for a woman to meet a man who is constantly on the upward spiral, growing and evolving in life without even mentioning about whether he's learning game or not. It would be even still rarer to find the man that, without self-development, has reached elite heights of game that nearly every guy who has ever been in the community will never reach. If, for example, you are on path in both of those things, it would be NEARLY IMPOSSIBLE for her to meet another guy like you.

Through your development in both general life and cold approach, you want to make it so that the probability of her running into another guy anywhere close to as good as you are is NIL. It will always be possible...so is winning the lottery possible...yet what are the odds behind it? How many tickets does one have to purchase, number picking strategies to put into play, how many times a day for how long would someone have to cop a ticket before hitting it big? The vast majority of lottery players can play for AN ENTIRE LIFETIME and barely win $10, just based on pure probability and the way the game is set up. If you are doing the right work, my friend....the same is absolutely true here.

I'm not telling you to underestimate other guys and their potentials. As a fight fan, I'd like to compare it to a champion defending their belt. The champion works hard on their craft: to strengthen their strengths and turn their weaknesses into either strengths or non-liabilities. They know this fighter that will stand across from them is DANGEROUS, is DYNAMIC, and possesses certain skills that could swing things in their favor rather quickly. But, and this is a big but, the champ believes that, all things considered and tallied up, they are the FAR SUPERIOR fighter and are EAGER TO PROVE IT. They believe their opponents are amazing, but they believe that THEY are even more so. You should view the dating game EXACTLY THE SAME as this.