How We Can Use Misinterpretation (IOIs are A Waste, pt. 2)

In the last newsletter, we learned why looking for IOIs is not as helpful as always assuming attraction until she shows you hard, irrefutable evidence that she isn't into you.

We also learned that misinterpretation, or playfully yet confidently interpreting everything she says and does as meaning that she's into you, works well because you're not waiting for her approval, you're moving the interaction forward in a dynamic, powerful, and captivating way. By assuming attraction and speaking and acting like it, you're showing her that you're used to getting your way and reasonably expect the same to happen with her.

These lines might seem overconfident, but remember, cockiness and arrogance used playfully in the context of flirting is actually a magnet for women, not a deterrent.

Let's look at some example of how we can use this principle in field.

Examples:

A girl pulls out her phone mid-set for no reason, "hold on speedy...I may give you my number later on, but just...treat me like a regular human being, not a conquest..."

A girl says she has a boyfriend, "honestly, I appreciate girls like you who go for what they want...but don't you think it's a little early to make me your boyfriend?! How 'bout this: if everything goes smoothly, you might get lucky..."

A girl says she has a husband, "damn, the fact that you're proposing is sweet, I'm tempted to say yes but I think we need some more time before tying the knot...you don't mind, do you?"

If a girl isn't giving you much in terms of active participation or is trying to leave quickly, "look, I know it's very intimidating standing in front of a guy so handsome and amazing, but at least give yourself a chance...who knows?! You might be able to win yourself some points..."

Girl is reluctant to exchange numbers, "I understand, I get it...I am cute, and intriguing and you'd rather not try than mess it all up with a guy who's kind of "out of your pay grade". Sometimes, you gotta believe in yourself, though...you never know what you can do when you try..."