How To Overcome Neediness When Meeting Women In Dating And Approaching

In the midst of neediness, you can still see the truth.

Simply put, you DON'T.

All of us guys experience the same feelings of potential loss whether we are inexperienced and attach to every girl we come across, or are experienced but still are afraid of losing girls we like.

This means that the fear REMAINS around no matter what you've been doing or how long you've been doing it for.

This epiphany should free up some mental RAM and send you on your way.

But it probably won't because you're still thinking of "what can I do about it?"

The actual answer is about "not doing", or more specifically, not allowing the fear of loss to seep in and affect your game plan.

You feel it acutely; it rises up and rears its' ugly head, yet you don't REACT...you ACT according to what you know to be right and true and let the feelings "feel"...

Sounds very similar to good approach anxiety advice, right?

Here's why.

All fear is the same. It presents itself to inspire you to do the same things (play small and try not to lose instead of learn and grow), and it is all handled the same exact way. You step forward into and through the fear and do what you know to be right by your current knowledge and skill base.

Reacting to the fear and letting it dictate your course of action is ALWAYS the wrong way to go.

You must practice feeling your fear fully, but keeping yourself on task to act properly in all situations in cold approach, and life.

Let's face it, though. This stuff ain't easy. If it was, you wouldn't even need to read this far. The reason you're reading it is because you're having problems here. Mental hurdles like these are much quicker dealt with when you have experienced practitioners who are serious about your success helping you. Of course, you might feel, being a person that takes responsibility for your dating life, that you can hop obstacles by yourself, but why try that? All incredible performers have coaches and cold approach is no exception to the rule. Send an email at attraction.institute.nyc@gmail.com and we'll discuss if we're right to work together. In addition, you'll receive the 11 Intangibles To Success in Cold Approach cheat sheet, ready to download for you to keep handy.

Also, today marks Day 1 of the launch campaign for The Mental Side of Cold Approach online course. It's all about the mindset necessary for making cold approach work for you, clearing your mental blocks and rewiring yourself for success. We'll cover related topics everyday until March 12th, when you can head over to the course site and enroll (link coming soon!)

Until next time!