You Should Be Turning Down Girls...A Lot

It's a very simple concept, but one not talked about often enough. We always hear how guys in this community are aiming to be high-status or high-value men. They then proceed to hook up with every girl under the sun, thinking that they are somehow achieving this goal with these actions. Just to be crystal clear, a high-value man has standards and expectations for the women he has in his life. He does NOT keep ambiguous women around him for ambiguous reasons. He does NOT just accept any girl into his life; she is (or they are) carefully chosen with respect to what this man values most. Being a high-value man means having standards. Being a high-value man means turning down more women than you allow into your dating life. You SHOULD be rejecting a solid amount of women who are interested in you, not only for time purposes but you should be looking out for the "best of the best". As a parallel example, rich people don't clammer around looking for any and every way to make money under the sun. Being rich implies choice, they have every opportunity at their fingertips yet only choose to act on the FEW BEST options. Trying in desperation to scoop up everything available regardless of the fit is a poor person's mentality. Poor equals lack. If you act like a person who doesn't have, you will get more to "not have".

Guys who are the cream of the crop choose from the best girls that they truly like and leave the rest alone. In the community, we've always been taught that "sex is sex", "girls are girls", and more, rather than less, are better. Once you are past a basic proficiency level where you've had sexual and dating experience, you would do best not adding to your "count" mindlessly. The best thing to do is wait and work for the girls you REALLY want and turn the rest down.