Approaching Is A Luxury

There are times where it feels like you have to approach thousands of girls to just get one. There are times where it feels as if you are simply approaching to approach, still unable to get what you want. There are times where every approach just feels like you're spinning your wheels, forced into an endless treadmill of activity. In the mad dash for success, sex, and results, it is easy to overlook anything less than what we are aiming for. We all start this journey in order to get the women we want, the approach is something we do in order to facilitate that. But what if that mindset is actually a detriment? What if looking upon approaching as a necessary evil is hindering our ability to develop our skill? What if we need to reframe how we view approaching so that we get more out of it?

For many of us, there would have been a time when approaching the women we desire couldn't be done because of societal constraints and the like. The option to somewhat craft your own destiny as far as mating is a new possibility. The field of cold approach has only existed for 25 years as a serious study and practice. Hundreds of years before and up until then, the world's greatest seducers operated in the small communities they lived in, and leveraged social connections for maximum gain. It would have been most unthinkable for a man to seek to date a total female stranger with no previous ties to him, and this was accepted without question by most.

Fast-forward to today! Just having the opportunity to approach is not a luxury that exists across the world, yet if you live somewhere where it is accepted, it is very easy to become jaded about this. Being able to do cold approach is a luxury! It is not a given, it is not a right, it is not a mandate, it is a LUXURY. Regardless of whether you get the girl or not, whether she comes home with you or not, whether anything at all positive happens between you two, does not change the fact that it is a luxury that you get to approach at all. We take for granted our health until we realize what it is to be without it . We take for granted internet bringing the wisdom of ages to our doorstep until something reminds us that, had anything been altered in the course of history as we know it, we would not have this marvelous ability.

Never accept being jaded about cold approach. Choose to be awestruck. Choose to be in wonder. Choose fascination. Choose a healthy obsession. Choose to be driven. Choose to be determined. You're learning the ropes of a tool that can change your dating and sex life beyond recognition, more than any other way, not simply for the results you get but the change it creates in YOU. This is the ONLY dating method where you grow as your results grow, you Become in order to Have. Because of that simple fact, regardless of the hardships you face here (and you will face many), cold approach should always garner your utmost respect and reverence and every other positive emotion under the sun. It deserves it. So do you for choosing this path.